Showing posts with label roommate. Show all posts
Showing posts with label roommate. Show all posts

Saturday, May 23, 2015

20 Things that I Learned my Freshman Year




Freshman year is full of new things from going to a new school to learning how to adapt to college life. Iv'e learned so much this year but there were many things I wish I would have known going into school. It can be really scary, but freshman year can also be one of the best years of your life.








1. Watch your popcorn

I can't tell you how many times I had to stand outside in the middle of the night, morning and all other times of the day because someone burnt their popcorn. Fire alarms are super sensitive and when they are set off everyone has to evacuate. I set off the alarm once and it was super embarrassing, don't let that be you.


2.  Be open to meeting new people.

Starting college is hard because you hardly know anyone. Take advantage of every opportunity you get to go out and meet people. Everyone is looking for friends, don't be worried about people not liking you. Just put yourself out there.


3.  Try to remember peoples names

You're going to be meeting so many new people your first month or so. If you're good at remembering names, that's great. If you aren't, thats okay too. It's always super awkward when you know you've met someone but can't remember their name but the truth is, at this point they probably don't remember yours either.  So just ask and get the awkwardness out of the way, it's better than never knowing and eventually having it be too late to ask again.


4. Go to class

Even if you have those professors that don't care if you come to class, or if you're in a giant lecture hall, going to class is a must. Professors often discuss material or make important remarks that can't be found in your textbooks. In a smaller classroom setting, professors know if you aren't present and won't think as highly of you if you aren't there.


5. Do extra credit

I'm not sure how grading works at most schools, but at mine the difference between a B+ and a B are huge. A plus is worth roughly .33% more than just a flat letter grade. Extra credit makes all the difference and will show your professor you're really trying.


6. Don't buy your books from the bookstore.

Your campus bookstore jacks up the prices of the textbooks. I saved over $100 each semester buying my books off of amazon. I also recommend buying and not selling your books. Buying is so much easier because you don't have to worry about something happening to them or returning them at the end of the semester, plus it's a nice incentive at the end of the semester when you can sell them back and magically get easy cash.


7. Do SOMETHING

No matter what it is, get involved with something. Whether it's greek life, a club or a sport, do something. You're college experience will be so much better if you're involved. Activities also introduce you to people and can help you adjust to the college atmosphere.




8. Watch out for your friends.

A great thing about my school is that we all watch out and take care of each other when we go out. Parties are great but it's still important to watch your drinks and to make sure your friends aren't leaving with a sketchy guy.



8. Take care of people

If a friend is sick, take care of them. You never know when the situation will be switched and you'll want someone taking care of you. Check out this website from the University of Texas for more information about alcohol poisoning. Don't be afraid to call 911 and get your friend in trouble. Many schools have a policy for helping students with no repercussions.


9. Form study groups

Study groups are a great way to go over material. Teaching things you know to others is one of the best ways to remember information. It's also a great way to go over material you don't know.




10. Get away from your high school self

No one cares anymore if you were a super great football player or were the best in your class. People who can't stop reliving their high school days are hard to be around. Don't forget those memories, but constantly bringing high school up to your new friends is annoying. Don't be that person.


11. Avoid sickness at all costs

Staying healthy in college is super hard. You're confined to small areas with people and constantly interacting with everyone. Pump yourself up on vitamin C and use some hand sanitizer.


12.  Call your family

They miss you A LOT. Go ahead and give them a call and tell them how you're doing.


13. It's okay to not know what you're doing with your life

If you haven't decided on a major, THAT'S OKAY. Freshman year is the time to take different classes and figure it out. It's also okay if you don't know by the end. You'll get there and find something you love.


14. Bring enough socks and underwear

Let's face it, you're not going to want to do laundry every week. Hell, I hate doing it. Think about how often you want to do laundry and bring enough socks and underwear to last you however long. This will save you in the long run.


15. Be a good roommate

If your roommate is still sleeping, don't turn on the light when you get up. Stumble around awkwardly with your phone for a flashlight and get dressed.  Use headphones when listening to anything. If you're staying up late and she is going to bed, go somewhere else. Happy roommates make your life easier.


16.  Don't get into a relationship right away

Getting into a relationship as soon as you get there limits you socially. You won't go out as often and you won't be as open to meet new people.  Let yourself meet every guy you can, my guy friends are some of the best people that I know.


17. Long distance doesn't always work and that's okay

Out of all my friends who went into college with a long distance significant other, I think maybe one or two of them are still together. College changes you and it's hard maintaining that connection so far away. IT WILL BE OKAY.  Being long distance means that most of the people you know won't know your ex and you won't be surrounded by things that constantly remind you of them. You are going to meet so many new people and find someone else.


18. Go to sporting events

Supporting your school and hanging out with friends is so much fun! Just do it. You won't regret it. 


19. Don't wear your lanyard 

You are going to be so tempted to wear your lanyard with your ID around campus because it's convenient. Don't do it. It is a huge flag to everyone saying "Hey I'm a freshman." 


20.  Have fun

Freshman year is the year where you're expected to have fun. You will have the least responsibilities this year out of all four years there. Take advantage of it.






 -Love always, 

Rachel


Thursday, November 13, 2014

Roommate 101


Hello LTP community! I know it has been a while, but the quarter system is killing me. I have had a midterm every week for three weeks now. However, I think I'm done with testing until finals woo! Anyways, college has been SO MUCH FUN! San Luis Obispo is absolutely incredible, and my new friends are so fun and supportive. As you all know, I have two roommates, and the three of us all get along wonderfully. In honor of our success so far, this post will be all about how to create a good relationship with your roommate(s)!

1.  Communication: This is definitely the most important part about living with other people, and can make or break your first year in the dorms. Besides group texts and calling each other, my roommates and I have a couple ways of communication that have been super helpful so far. 
           This is a combined schedule with all three of our current classes, and one of the most useful things we have created. After the first week of school, we made this because we were always wondering when each of us had class. Even after 8 weeks of school, I still look at it every day. Each of us has a color (I am blue, Liz is pink and Cody is green) and we divided it up into hour increments. Yes, Liz and I have a class from 8-10pm. No, we did not choose to have one at that time. :(

Sticky notes are also one of our favorite ways to communicate! We use them to let each other know where we are when we aren't in class, wish each other good luck on tests, and even make random comments to each other (like Liz's comment about the lettuce in her veggie science lab lol). These are super easy to put up, and extremely useful when one of us leaves before the others wake up.

2.  Respect: This is crucial, especially when it comes your roommate's personal space. You are going to be living with these people for an entire year (if not more), so you want to make sure that you are all on good terms. This is also important when it comes to each other's food! Don't take anything unless you ask first, or unless they offer some to you (seriously don't get in between college kids and their food...).

3.  Support: With college comes a wave of new challenges. Some will be harder then others, and everyone deals with stress in their own ways. Even if it appears that your roommate is doing ok, make sure they know that you are there for them. Sometimes you just need someone to vent to or even another person to review an essay you are working on. Also, we have found that a roomie cuddle sesh will fix almost anything. (even our guy friends have cuddle sessions with each other...don't believe me? See the second picture below)

 4.  Set Rules: Do this in the very beginning! If your roommate is doing something that bugs you, confront them about it right away. Chances are they don't know it is bothering you. This will also help avoid arguments later on. At the beginning of the year, our RA passed out roommate agreements that we all created and signed to lay out all the rules. This included quiet hours, hygiene, guests, and personal space. For example, Liz didn't want anyone on her bed, so instead of finding out the hard way, we all agreed we wouldn't go up there when writing our contract.

5.  BE YOURSELF: Don't conform to be like everyone else. Even though you will probably be spending a lot of time with your roommates, this doesn't mean you have to all be carbon copies of each other in order to get along. In fact, each of us have little quirks that make living with each other more interesting. Like how Cody goes to sleep on top of her comforter every night, or how Liz randomly takes showers at 4am.


Me and Cody during rush
The 3 of us training to become ping pong pros
Me and Liz on Halloween

How do you guys maintain good relationships with your roommates?

Bisous!

Lauren